I wrote a field guide to reading your birth chart against theirs — the pull, the cost, and the argument you keep having. Two birth dates is all it needs. Not the hour, not the city, not their permission.
Six parts, each one usable on its own. By the end you can sit down with two birth dates and read the shape of what happens between them — by hand, without me.
What each of you needs before you will believe you are loved — and which of you is holding the wheel. Ten minutes, no lookup, no birth time.
One number, nought to six, from a grid. It names the pull, what it gives, what it costs, and the argument it produces. Seven chapters, one per distance.
Why sun-sign compatibility is right about a third of the time, and what to read instead. All twelve: what they need, what they withhold, how they leave.
And the more useful half: what has to happen before each of you can stop. Most couples never learn the other person's exit.
The Siege. The Chase. The Ledger. The Fog. The Slow Drift. Each with the chart signature behind it and the one thing that changes it — plus a full worked example.
The chapter guides like this one leave out. Stated plainly, with the numbers, so you know exactly how much weight the other sixty pages carry.
Sixty-three years of real Venus and Mars positions — every sign change between 1950 and 2012, located to the minute and printed in UTC.
Two charts have never once told me whether a couple should stay together. That belongs to you, and it is decided in kitchens, not in the sky. This book will not give you a verdict, and anything that does is selling you something.
It will tell you the shape of the loop — which is the thing most people are actually asking for when they ask the other question.
The Moon and your Rising sign are not in here, because they honestly cannot be: the Moon changes sign 10,106 times across the years these tables cover, and the Ascendant depends on where on Earth you were standing. Part Six says so in full rather than papering over it.
Most of what people call incompatibility is a translation problem they have been treating as a character problem. From “Before we start”
Seventy-four pages, as a PDF, the moment you ask. No account, no card, no app required to read it.